it’s not you, it’s me

Not surprisingly, I caught some flak for my insinuation that Philadelphia men come up short when compared to men from the Big Apple (hey, if you’re not prepared to be the center of a little controversy every now and then, don’t be a writer).  Those readers that I talked to seemed very upset that I would characterize men from Philly as inferior to those from New York, and suggested that perhaps maybe the problem isn’t with them, but with me.

While it’s that “It’s all your fault” attitude that keeps people like my therapist in business, I’m game enough to accept a gauntlet when it is thrown before me. So go ahead, Philly guys – tell me what I should do to attract your attention. Tell me about the kind of girl who catches your eye in a bar, in a store, on the sidewalk, and what she does to make you approach her. Any guys from New York, or anywhere else, feel free to weigh in as well. Could be interesting to see if what attracts a guy varies geographically (although I’m fairly sure T&A works everywhere, so no need to point that out, fellas.)