Wow! Apparently I need to ask you all to write blogs for me more often. I got such an overwhelming and thought-provoking response to my query for the essential things that every modern woman needs (from both women and men – thanks, Joe Roth!) that what was going to be a top 10 list could have easily been a top 50 list. I did some editing, did some tweaking, and now, without further adieu, present to you (in no particular order) the Top 40 Essentials Every Twenty-Something Woman Should Have:
1. At least two close friends nearby.
2. Vibrator (Like I even need to explain this one.)
3. An education
4. A pair of fuck-me boots
5. The Pill
6. A place of your own/the experience of living on your own
7. One shirt that makes your tits look great, and one pair of pants/shorts that make your ass look great
8. A sassy gay friend
9. The ability to look at yourself in the mirror, and be happy with what you see
10. A flask (Because whiskey ain’t cheap, yo.)
11. A purse that you don’t care how dirty and destroyed it gets (For crazy bar nights)
12. One friend who will always tell you the truth
13. One friend who will always tell you what you want to hear
14. A driver’s license
15. A pair of underwear/lingerie you’d never want your dad to see
16. One dish/meal that you’re great at preparing
17. A bank account in your name
18. Cheap, funky jewelry for going out
19. Nice, good-quality jewelry for special occasions
20.. A signature scent
21. A really good massage once a year
22. A close male friend to be your big brother and look out for you.
23. A goal (personal or professional) to work towards
24. A wine opener
25. A great pair of jeans
26. Time to be on your own and get to know yourself
27. One movie/song/book that always makes you laugh, and one that always makes you cry
28. A pair of versatile black pumps
29. One friend who’s always up for a crazy night on the town
30. Cab fare
31. A go-to drink that you can always enjoy
32. A little black dress and a little red dress
33. Enough income to not need a guy to pay
34. Chocolate
35. Comfy sweatpants
36. A passport
37. A male friend who’s fun to make out with but too flawed to date
38. A camera
39. One outfit that always makes you feel sexy
40. Confidence